Ujian Saringan HIV Pra-Perkahwinan (Bakal Pengantin)

Tujuan entry ni aku up kan bcoz aku bengang gler ngan Klinik Kesihatan yg conduct Ujian Saringan HIV untuk bakal pengantin sekitar Wilayah Persekutuan Kuala Lumpur nie. Aku remind lagi skali, entry ni hanya applicable to those yang nak buat ujian saringan ni di Kuala Lumpur sahaja ok! Tempat lain aku x tau..

First thing aku buat masa aku nak tau info pasal ujian nie, aku bukak website JAWI sebab tunang aku org kl..so ktorang mmg kene berurusan ngan JAWI. Thanks to kecanggihan IT sekarang nie, suma pon boleh download aje including Borang Kebenaran Berkahwin. Jabatan Agama Islam Perak pon dah boleh download aje borang..so memudahkan keje aku.

Back to the story..aku pon download lah segala mak nenek borang, prosedur kawen including lah Senarai Klinik Kesihatan yang menjalankan Ujian HIV WPKL kat bawah nie :-

Kelik pd gambar utk besarkan.
Kalau x clear, korang bukak la website JAWI or download kt SINI

Okeh. Notice that dyer cuma bagi phone no..tapi x state clearly kat situ yang Ujian HIV tu BY APPOINTMENT ONLY kan? Baik! Lepas discuss dgn Wan bler ktorang nak ambik half day (since test nih cuma leh wat dari kul 2.00-4.30 ptg SAHAJA). Maka ktorang pon apply lah half day on 7hb Januari, 2010 yg lepas. Dgn confident nye ktorang pon pegi la ke Klinik Kesihatan Batu, Jalan Ipoh (since KK ni dekat sgt ngan umh wan)..sanggup skip lunch sbb takot lewat..dah beratur beria-ia kat kaunter pendaftaran tue, smpai lah turn ktorang :-

Misi : Yer?

Aku : Nak buat ujian saringan HIV utk bakal pengantin..

Misi : Ada buat appointment?

Aku : Takde

Misi : (sambil tunjuk ke arah bilik depan ktorang) ..pegi sana dulu buat appointment!

Ktorang pon pegi la masok bilik yg ade label "HIV PRA PERKAHWINAN"

Aku : Saya nak buat ujian HIV.

Misi : Ada buat appointment?

Aku : Takde..ktorang tak tau kene buat appointment!

Misi : Kene buat appointment dulu. Hari ni dah penuh..kami ambik SATU HARI 6 ORANG je!

Wan : Tak dapat ke masuk kan kami..saya ni susah nak cuti lagi..

Misi : Tak boleh dah..dah penuh..ini yg ada dalam list ni semua yg buat appointment..(sambil tunjuk buku appointment)

Wan : Kat mane lagi kami boleh buat test nie hari nie?

Misi : SEMUA KLINIK PON KENE APPOINTMENT..yang x payah appointment pon cuma Klinik DBKL Cheras tapi hari RABU SAHAJA! U datang balik la esok..esok ada kosong, nak?

Aku : Tak boleh la..kami ni half day hari nie..takkan esok nak half day lagi..takpe la terima kasih.

Maka, blah lah aku & Wan dgn rasa bengang gler..dah la perot lapar..test x leh buat..Then, Wan dapat idea, y not ktorang call klinik2 lain yg ada dlm senarai yg JAWI bagi tue kot2 ade rezeki..since aku secretary dyer, dyer jadi boss tukang baca kan number..aku la kene jadi telephone operator..

Dari satu klinik ke satu klinik smpai lah ke Hospital Kuala Lumpur yg sebeso2 alam tue, semua pon BY APPOINTMENT ONLY and limitkan sehari hanya 6 orang sahaja! Paling banyak x silap aku HKL kot 10 orang (if i'm not mistaken..aku lupa dah sbb byk sgt klinik ktorang call). And semua klinik pon fully booked! HKL paling awal boleh buat is awal bulan Februari 2010..

But, yg paling bengang nye lagi biler aku dapat jawapan cam nie (note that most of the clinics pon akan cakap the same thing!) :-

Aku : Hello..KK whutever place..saya nak tnyer ada slot kosong lagi tak utk buat ujian HIV pra perkahwinan hari nie?

Orang klinik : Dah penuh..u kene buat appointment dulu. U tinggal mane?

Aku : err..Jalan Ipoh (sbb malas nak bagitau aku dok Selangor!)..

Orang klinik : U Jalan Ipoh pegi KK Batu! Kami tak ambik org luar kawasan.. sbb SYRINGE/TEST KIT tak cukup!

Jawapan lain yg aku dpt hari tue :-

Orang klinik : Kami ambik org yg tinggal sekitar sini je..Klang Lama boleh dtg sini..Jalan Ipoh pegi Jalan Ipoh..

SOALAN AKU : Kenapa korang kene rumitkan prosedur ni sedangkan aku boleh pegi walaupon smpai Puchong ke Putrajaya sekalipon? Kenapa ko kene limitkan pulak 6 org sehari utk test yg x sampai 5 minit tue?

Next day, aku still x puas hati..so aku type kat status Facebook aku pasal nie and rata2 member2 aku yg buat di luar Kuala Lumpur semuanya tak perlu appointment bagai..and senang sgt! So, kenapa KL pulak yg susah?? Kenapa Ipoh, Chemor, Menglembu, Johor semua x payah appointment? Kenapa BFF aku Nur Aiza umah nya di Batu 8, Ulu Kinta boleh aje buat test kat KK Menglembu???

Fine!!! Korang nak aku buat appointment..aku buat! So, dah lepas pikir2 balik ngan Wan bler pulak ktorang nak cuti...so dapat la satu date! Aku pon call lah KK Batu, Jalan Ipoh. Lain pulak aku dapat jawapan :-

Aku : Hello..saya nak buat apointment utk Ujian Saringan HIV hari Rabu depan..

Misi : Bila tarikh nikah?

Aku : 12 Mac 2010

Misi : Sekarang ni kami bagi keutamaan utk org yg nak nikah bulan 2. Awak nikah bulan 3 datang buat bulan depan..

PULAKK????????!!!!!!!

See??? Now korang tau kenapa aku marah sgt kan??? Makcik misi, ko nak aku buat appointment, aku nak buat la ni!! Dah tu kenapa sekarang ko x bagi pulak??? Terpaksa la aku pujuk pastu explain beria-ia bagai nak rak..

"Saya ni bukan nikah di KL..blablablabla..tunang saya je org kl..blablablabla..saya org perak..jadi nikah di perak..blablablabla..saya nak kene settle kan borang lelaki dulu dgn JAWI lepas tu nak bawak balik borang ke perak submit pulak ke pejabat agama di ipoh. blablablabla..sebab itu lah saya nak settle kan cepat! jadi macam mane? tak boleh ke nie? boleh la yer??"

Baru la misi tu give-up ngan aku and dyer pon cakap

"haa..bagi nama bagi nama..berapa org?"

Astaqfirullahalazim.........bazir air liur aku taw makcik! Kalo dari tadi makcik mtk nama kan senang? Sighhhhh.......

Mari recycle bekas hantaran!

Bekas ni semua 6 bijik aku dh bwk ke kedai Vivian. Tapi sbb nk sesuaikan dgn kaler bunga & hiasan yg aku nak according to our wedding theme, maka kotak ni mesti lah berwarna putih, kalo tak x lawa kater Vivian..That's when ktorang decided nk try spray dulu ngan cat putih..kalo it turns out buruk, baru nak beli baru. Thu-kang spray x lain x bukan lah, Mr. Fiance. Kira ada bakat gak la..sbb kotak2 nih suma nya jadi elok jek & yg penting - it's WHITE !! Nasib gak cuaca panas, so jemur kejap dh kering. Setel satu masalah ;)

Bekas hantaran masa bertunang yg dh siap digubah

Bekas hantaran asal - gold color sbb nk match dgn tema bertunang

Okeh wan bengang sbb aku bagi patah satu bekas maser ngh keluarkan balance gam+sponge yg melekat kt ctue! Tapi wan dh paku balik. Alah bkn sengaja..aku pon nk tolong gak kan? ;p

Ni la rupa nya lepas di spray ngan cat putih. Kotak2 ni akan digubah dgn bunga+hiasan warna biru pulak.

NILAI 3 SUCKS BIG TIME!

  
Ni masa sampai2 jek kt sana, aku suruh Wan posing..

Masa pusing2 cari bank terjumpa plak ngan klinik aku! Sape sakit angkat tangan?? Hah hah!

Okeh I've promised to write abt this before rite? Since I'm in the mood rite now, here goes..

On 1st January 2010, me & my fiance (Wan) went to Nilai 3 despite of Makcik Imah's bad review after sOoo many good reviews we heard frm other ppl..and after Izuan was sOooo attracted by an ads in Majalah Pesona Pengantin featuring one of the shops selling bunga telur and pengantin stuffs..(plus 1st Jan was public holiday for New Year celebration).

Baik! By the time we reached there, its abt 3pm kot..so tanpa berlengah we head straight to one of the shops yg nampak sgt meriah tue..I've few things in my to-buy list..first thing aku nampak is Pahar. Mmg murah! Cuma RM 9.90 jek compared to area Jalan TAR suma kedai jual around RM 12.90-15.90. So aku dah teruja! Then aku pegi pulak tgk bunga telur..banyak sgt design..suma nampak best! Yess mmg banyak pilihan lah! Wan kata "survey kedai lain dulu". So ok, we then went to the 2nd shop..pon sama..design bunga telur lebey kurang sama but price aje diff. sket..and ade la tambahan few designs..masok pulak 3rd shop..sama gak! So after few comparison, ktorang pon choose kedai mana nak beli and trus bayar!

We bought bunga telur 200 pcs, pahar 5 bijik?? (or buah?? hantam je lah!), and kotak kek 2pcs. Kira sampai kedai tutup gak la ktorang pusing habis suma kedai kt situ..Kedai yg jual all the pengantin stuffs tak banyak pon! Kedai yg lain2 tu suma jual karpet, kain, langsir, and macam2 benda lah! X menarik perhatian ktorang pon..Tapi yg best nye if beli kain langsir kat sana, derang boleh jahitkan sekali within 1 hour! So best lah kan..ko beli kain, bayar..then pegi jalan2 dulu..after 1 hour datang balik collect langsir yg dah siap! Senang! But since langsir mak aku dah settlekan kat Eastern Decorator Ipoh..aku tak payah pk bab langsir! ;p

Oleh sbb ktorang smpai pon agak lewat, and kedai2 kt cnie close business at around 9pm, ktorang beli mana yg sempat je lah. Balance lagi 150pcs konon2 nk repeat next day!

Maka, pulanglah aku dgn hati yg berbunga-bunga sambil terbayangkan Wan tgh goncang tgn Tok Kadi pehtu saksi suma cakap "SAH!!" Waaaaaaaaaaaaaaa gler x ley bla!!

(x sedar lagi dah kene tipu nie!)

On Sunday, Wan suggested that we send all our bekas hantaran to Vivian's shop kat dalam pasar Chow Kit tu utk digubah. Masa btunang last time pon ktorang mmg buat gubahan hantaran kat kedai Vivian and mmg puas hati sgt2 and murah..bekas2 & dulang2 hantaran tu ktorang beli puposely sbb nak reuse balik je for our wedding nanti. Sampai je kat kedai Vivian, the first thing yg caught our attention is ---->> bunga telur!! Sama, sebijik macam yg aku dah beli kat Nilai 3 ittew yer tuan2! So, gatal mulut lah tnya Vivian :-

Aku : "Vivian, ini satu kuntum berapa?"

Vivian : "I bagi u RM 1.70 je!"

Aku : "So, 50 pcs berapa?"

Vivian : "RM 85"

Aku & Wan : (tercengang) "???????? Saya beli dkt Nilai 3 RM 112 laaaaaa!!!! (harga asal RM 140 konon dpt diskaun jadi RM 112)"

Pusing2 lagi....jumpa lagi satu design sebijik gak ngan yg aku dah beli di Nilai 3! Beza nya aku beli bertangkai, Vivian display tu yg ader tpt gantung..

Aku : "Vivian, ini pulak berapa??"

Vivian : "Ini RM 45 boley bagi uuuuuuu...saya ada yg tangkai punya sama harga"

Aku : (nak nangis dah!) "Saya dah beli..Nilai 3 sana RM 70!!!!"

Wan pulak pusing2 jumpa design 95% sama ngan yg dyer beli..beza sket tang isi dalam bunga jek. Tnya lagi harga and Vivian jawab :-

Vivian : "RM 85 jugak!"

Aku & Wan : "kita beli RM 110!" (harga asal RM 120 okeh konon2 diskaun!!)

Vivian : "Kenapa u pegi saneeeeeeeee..diorang jual harga pasaran mmg la mahal! U lain kali dtg sini!"

Macam la aku nak kawen banyak kali kan Vivian??? Choiii tau!! Hah hah!

Maka aku dgn Wan pon beli la balance yg lagi 150 pcs tu kat Vivian and siap dapat diskaun bagai lagi..bakul rotan besar pon dyer bagi aku RM 15 jek! (kat Nilai 3 paling murah RM 19.90) Pastu pengikat telur pon dapat free sekali ngan bunga telur (Nilai 3 tak dapat yer! sila la beli kat mana2 kedai barang pengantin, SayangYou jual 1,000pcs RM 3.50).

Mmg geram nye Tuhan jek yg tau..Wan x abes2 nyesal sbb ktorang dah terbeli kat Nilai 3 dek kerana YAKIN sgt yg Nilai 3 tu murah! Percayalah tu suma dusta semata-mata okeh!! Masalahnya sama sebijik pulak tue, FM Creation jugak! Kenapa Vivian leh jual murah? Aku ralat sgt2 tapi nk wat camne..dah terbeli..so lepas nie sape2 kwn2 or adik aku ke or sedara-mara yg nak cari bunga telur aku akan nasihatkan JANGAN PEGI NILAI 3 !!

Nilai 3 sucks BIG time !!!

Kalau sesiapa yg nak try pegi kedai Vivian, ni alamat nye :-

Vivian Chan
Kedai Bunga Vivian
No. 8 & 10 (G/B) Lot 1707
Jalan Haji Hussein
50300 Kuala Lumpur

Tel : 03 - 2693 7913
012-337 1688 / 016-291 9288

Kedai nya dalam Pasar Basah Chow Kit, Jalan Raja Bot. Korang parking la kete kat Wisma Tatt Khalsa sebelah pasar tu, then masok ke dalam pasar basah yg org jual ikan, ayam, sayur bagai tue. Lalu je depan kedai2 jual barang2 plastik and tikar getah suma..korang akan jumpa kedai Vivian!

Untuk gubahan hantaran, Vivian cuma akan charge harga barang yg digunakan jek cthnye riben, bunga, kertas, lace, manik, etc. Takde upah gubahan..staff dyer pon baik2 and friendly. One of them nama nya Ika..dyer still ingt aku ngan wan smpai skrang sbb masa ktorang nak ambik bekas2 hantaran yg dah digubah utk btunang last time, ktorang pegi ambik kat umah dyer..Vivian tutup kedai ptg around 6pm..so mane2 customer yg dtg malam, Vivian akan suruh ambik ngan Ika sbb umah nya dkt sgt ngan pasar Chow Kit tue..hasil gubahan nya alhamdulillah mmg sangat2 puas hati! Apa yg aku mintak, mmg sebijik Vivian buat! Kalo sape nak terai, boleh la.. ;)

TEASER

Teaser specially designed by a dear friend of mine, Mazlinizam Marzuki.

Actually there's so much I wanted to blog abt-Nilai 3 sucks BIG time, Govt. clinic so leceh, my wedding prep., my engagement roundup summary + pixss..but later ok! lazy..
(i type it here so that i won't forget!)

My Engagement Slideshow (Part 1)

Date : 26th September 2009 (7th Syawal 1430H)
Day : Saturday
Time : After Zohor prayer
Place : Taman Desa Jaya, Tg. Rambutan, Perak
Event : My Engagement Ceremony

Special slide made by Izuan's sis Kak Aisyah

Video ni maybe buffering lama sket..so sabar la yer! btukar lah ke streamyx..mengapa percaya pada yg kurang berpengalaman? hahahhahahahha!

My Engagement Slideshow (Part 2)

Date : 26th September 2009 (7th Syawal 1430H)
Day : Saturday
Time : After Zohor prayer
Place : Taman Desa Jaya, Tg. Rambutan, Perak
Event : My Engagement Ceremony

A Picture Worth A Thousand Words!

Sumthing to remember..

moOd jiwang telah melanda ujan-ujan nie. sila abaikan aje kalau anda benci nk tgk. a few more (sila jangan muntah darah!) :-

How do you know if he's the one for you?

Last week I went to Manjung for my ex-schoolmate's wedding. Selamat Pengantin Baru to Laily Kamariah Mohd Jamil & her husband Kamarul Azwan aka Bowh (don't ask me wat does that stands for coz i really dunno..maybe sbb dyer suka minum teh boh?? maybe..)..

So early am saturday, Mr. Fiance hantar aku ke Puduraya..sbb wan kene keje x dpt cuti kekdahnye..aku dgn sgt gigih bwk hadiah dgn berbaju kurung ala2 perempuan melayu terakhir di Kuala Lumpur..wahh gittew kan! Smpai kt terminal Medan Gopeng, Manja & Feena fetch aku & ktorang trus ke majlis Elly..bila smpai sana jumpa la plak dgn Mazli, Syikin & Aley yg dh bercarpool frm kl..so tanpa segan silu aku pon menumpangkn diri aku blk ke kl..

Since Mazli mendrift Kenari Turbo nye ikut jalan lama Teluk Intan-KL, maka the whole journey rasa cam lama glerr..but it was fun! Mcm2 topik yg ktorang borak kn..dari kisah majlis smpai kisah hidup smpai kisah cinta! Sorang demi sorang kene interview oleh Aley pasal camne ktorang knal pasangan masing2..(sebab --->> dalam Kenari Turbo tu suma nya TUNANGAN ORANG kecuali Aley shj!).

Ktorang lak amik kesempatan torture Aley abis-abisan! Bukan torture physically okeh..mentally jek! sbb ktorang suruh dyer kawen cepat! hahahahhaa sian Aley..sori ek bkn ktorang nk bg ko tension..ktorang bagi advise sajerk!

borak nye borak...until laa at one particular moment when Aley pop up this TRIVIA QUESTION :-

How do you know if he/she is the one for you?

Hah ambek ko!! Berpeluh gak nak menjawab nye wakakaka! I'm neither Dato Dr. Fadzilah Kamsah nor Dr Fazley! But thru my experience of love failure plus I used to be single and not knowing what to do or where to go while everyday tried to convince myself that I will never ever gonna meet a good guy apetah lagi untuk kawen.?? and suddenly!!! Suddenly just for once in my life Allah knows how a very simple first date has changed my life, my perception of guys & marriage for ever!! (i hope it'll be forever!)..

I met Izuan sumwhere in April this year..introduced by my ex-collegemate Kak Feza yg happens to be his officemate. The very first day ktorang kluar dating (leh la dikatergorikan sbg first date)..to be honest at that time I thought maybe he's just like sama jek ngn other lelaki yg pernah aku knal..not that dyer jumpa aku dgn rupa romeo ke ape! he was so damn calm and he acted cool la konon all the time hah hah..

Hari berganti hari..ktorang jd makin close..and Izuan adalah seorang lelaki yg sangat berterus-terang (which..memudahkn keje aku la kan? hahahha!).. dyer akan cakap ape yg dyer rasa..senang cakap, dyer bagitau suka dkt aku pon dgn sgt jujur..ajak aku kawen pon dgn sgt jujur..so? susah ke? And mind u suma ni happened so fast aku sendiri x dpt nak expect! Aku jumpa satu quote which goes like this :-

“Meeting you was fate, becoming your friend was a choice, but falling in love with you I had no control over”

Mmg betul!! It was all fate that brought us together..and the choice that i've made for myself to become his friend..then when you least expect it, LOVE HAPPENS! See?? Aku mmg leh kompemkan kesahihan quote ni sbb thats wat i've been thru! Aku sndiri x sedar biler aku jatuh chenta ngan dyer..hahahahah I love u b..SUMPAH YAH TAK TIPU! (i know u read my blog all the time b..nk spotcheck la tue! heheh baca la..i dun mind ;p)

Orang maybe ingat aku gila sbb setuju nak kawen dgn lelaki yg aku baru kenal 2-3 bulan! Aku sendiri memikir panjang before i said yes to him..aku ingat lagi the first person aku mtk opinion is my sis Kak Tie..and akak aku cakap "bagi la dyer peluang and see how far u can go" Then at one time aku fly ke JB nk ambik mak blk kl..smpai airport mak dh tggu ngan pakcik..then ktorang naik bas ke JB town..atas bas aku duduk sblh mak and aku trus cakap "Mak, ada org JAWA sa baru kenei tu ajak sa kawen. Dyer nk jumpa mak." (Kak Feza yg bgtau aku Izuan ni JAWA sbb parents nye asal Sabak Bernam - which ternyata fakta yg SALAH! Suma org pon kene JAWA la cam ko ek kak? Haahhahaha! So dun blame aku...aku tertipu..jadi Izuan mmg BUKAN JAWA!)

And mak kata "takpe le bwk le jmpa mak..tapi jgn terlalu mengharap sbb takot jadi mcm dulu.." lebey kurang gitu lah ayat mak aku..mak tanak aku frust lagi..lepas ape yg jd..Aku tau mak pon frust..kalo tak takkan la smpai dyer nk bwk aku mandi bunga kan?? watafun! wakakakaka! Sum more mak pon maybe terpk "Bior betoi bdk ni baru kenei sebulan dua dh ajak org kawen!" Muahahahahhahahahahha!

Kalau korang tnyer aku kenapa aku BERANI terima Izuan dlm hidup aku sedangkn aku tau ape yg aku wat ni mmg gamble glerr? Bukan sbb aku dah desperate nk kawen okeh! (ok walao pon aku tau aku dah agak tua but hello!) Aku akan jawab - sebab KESUNGGUHAN dyer! Kesungguhan yg dyer tunjuk utk prove pd aku & family aku yg dyer bukan main-main..dyer buat ape yg dyer cakap & dyer kotakan all the promises he made! lebih kurang 3 bulan knal, dyer hantar family datang merisik aku..and 2 mths++ later, ktorang selamat ditunangkn on Hari Raya ke-7 yg lepas..Alhamdulillah! Kalau semuanya berjalan lancar & diizinkan Allah, March next year genap la setahun ktorang bertemu, berkenalan, jatuh cinta & seterusnya bakal mendirikan rumahtangga. Amin!

Mungkin pd sesetengah org, adalah perlu utk kenal hati budi masing2 untuk satu tempoh yg agak lama then only decide utk kawen. Aku jugak pikir yg sama. Tapi, bler seru tu sampai, takde siapa pon yg dapat duga or halang. Trust me! Aku penah in long term relationship before tapi in the end - nothing! Ko cuma buang masa, buang dwet, and a waste of zaman muda jek!

Crazy as it may seems-tapi itu lah hakikatnya! Despite of all the dugaan yg dtg..stendet la relationship mane yg x diduga kan? Mmg smpai rasa nk give up..tapi alhamdulillah we made it till today! Hopefully ktorang akan trus strong till our last breath! Amin..

Now we're preparing for the big day..pejam celik pejam celik aku sendiri x sangka yg aku dh nak kawen! Dulu aku cukup marah bila ex-colleague suka sgt ajak aku pegi kdai barang pengantin.

Aku : "Ko lenkali nk gi kdai pengantin aku takmo la ikut..wat aku stress jek!"

Kiss : "Jom la sal..nanti ko nk kwen senang"

Aku : "Bler aku nk kawenn? Saper nk kawen ngan aku kiss cube ko cakap!"

Kiss : "Sabar sal..ko pcaya la cakap aku..sumhow aku dpt rasakan ko ni nanti akan jumpa sumone, tapi ko x lama couple..kejap jek ko mesti kawen! ko pcaya la cakap aku sal!"

Yerr kiss! Now aku percaya ape yg ko cakap tu mmg btul2 jadi! Terima kasih yg x terhingga utk ko sbb molot ko mmg masin glerr!! Thanks jugak utk Kak Feza for all the effort nk mengenalkn aku dgn Izuan! wakakakkakaa!!

Jadi, untuk Aley..aku dedicate kn entry ni buat ko! Advise aku, jgn kata ko x bersedia! Smpai bila2 pon nanti ko akan rasa yg ko x ready! Ko lelaki..lelaki kene berani pikul komitmen bro! Speaking of this..aku pon ade short story nk bgtau ko.. aku pernah (sblm knal Izuan) kenal sorang lelaki yg tak mau + takot nk ade komitmen! Setahun..I repeat - SETAHUN aku bkawan dgn dyer..SETAHUN aku bagi dyer peluang but dyer kept saying "Tak ready lagi". X ready ni in-terms of nk commit serious relationship dan jugak plan nak kawen! At that time aku bukan paksa dyer kawen dgn aku, but aku tnyer ader atau tak dyer terpk yg ktorang ni maybe akan kawen..Jawapan dyer - X READY! Jadi aku pk sampai biler?? Smpai bler aku nk tggu dyer? Smpai bila aku nk tggu dyer ready? Or maybe jugak dyer ade org lain yg lebih baik dr aku? Maybe kan? Umur aku bukan muda..makin hari aku makin tua! Aku perempuan..sooner or later org akan start mengata mak aku! owhh yg tu aku paling x mau! Aku tak nak mak aku tanggung malu sbb anak dara dyer x laku! So, aku buat keputusan - aku tak nak tunggu lagi! Aku angkat kaki..aku blah! Thats when aku knal Izuan. Izuan pulak sgt gentleman. Makin tinggi lah kaki aku angkat..Then...bila aku dh put a stop to it, he came back. Tau pulak aku dh ade org lain, dyer call/sms aku x berenti..tapi..wat for? Aku dh takde hati lagi utk dyer..aku dh tutup rapat2 utk dyer & bukak pintu baru utk Izuan!

So, my point is..sesal dulu pendapatan, sesal kemudian tiada berguna OR it’s no use crying over spilt milk! Love is a gamble, u gotta go for it while it's still there..if it fails, at least u tried!

+++ B, if you are reading this rite now, I want u to know that I love u so much & I am so thankful that we've met. For some people you may not be perfect, but for me - you are MORE than perfect! Biarlah u xde Evo 10, xde rumah banglo 1 juta or x bergaji 5 angka..cukup lah dengan apa yg u dah buat utk I all these while! for all ur sacrifices..for all the cares and love that u hv given me.. All I can say is THANK YOU! +++

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10 ways you know he's the one (taken from this site)

1) He makes you laugh until you cry
A sense of the humour is one of the most appealing qualities in a man and sharing the same jokes will keep you close, whatever comes your way. It doesn't matter if no one else finds you funny, as long as you can make each other laugh out loud.

2) You want the same things out of life
If you want to settle down and have a family and he wants to travel the world with no commitments then you are not on the same page. Although all couples have to make compromises you should essentially want the same things out of life and be able to work towards them together.

3) He likes you best with no make-up on
Yes, you may think he is lying but the chances are that he really does prefer you au natural. He loves you for you, not for the clothes you wear or the make up you doll yourself up in. If he tells you you're pretty when you are cuddled up in your pyjamas then chances are that he means it.

4) You see his flaws but love him anyway
It is wrong to think that to be ‘the one' your man has to be perfect. Nobody is perfect. He is ‘the one' when you know him well enough to see all his flaws, accept them for part of who he is, and love him just as much anyway.

5) He supports you in everything you do
Whether you are going for a job promotion or planning a night out with your friends - he should be your biggest cheerleader. He may not agree 100% with all your decisions but he will never stop you doing anything, will be there to offer advice and pick you up when things go wrong.

6) You trust him implicitly
If you have been hurt in the past it can be difficult to trust again, but it is an important part of any relationship. Your partner should earn your trust by proving that he always keeps his word and treats you with respect. No, you can never be 100% sure he won't stray but 99.5% will do.

7) Even your dad/mom/best friend/families likes him
OK, it shouldn't matter what other people think of him, but it is still nice to know that they approve. Your dad and best friend are only looking out for your best interests and it is difficult to convince them that somebody is good enough for you. If your boyfriend manages to get them on his side then you are probably on to a winner.

8) You wake up and feel lucky each morning
As you roll over in the morning and see him lying next to you, you are struck with a great sense of contentment. Here, out of everywhere in the world, is where you most want to be. You feel lucky to have him in your life and can't imagine sharing it with anyone else.
(okeh yg nie x leh digunapakai sebelum kawen pls!)

9) You stop noticing the cute guy at the coffee shop
Of course you are still going to find other men attractive but it is amazing how much less you notice them when you have found ‘the one'. Think about it, have you met anyone recently who really got your juices flowing? No? Then chances are he's right in front of you.

10) You just know
Sometimes there is no defining factor or moment that confirms he is ‘the one' - you just know. When your life is brighter with him in it (even with his annoying habits and football obsession), when you feel happy each morning and can't imagine your life without him, when you smile thinking about him - you just know.

U JUST KNOW!

Melepak kt umah

Melepak kt umh ari ahad camnihs mmg sgt membosankan..Mr. Fiance blk kampong. Arini cousin dyer bertunang..maybe malam kot baru smpai sini bwk mak nye blk..

So aku sangat poyos tatau nk wtpe..nasib baik dh mtk laptop siap2..dpt gak aku melayan Farmville. Smlm pegi wedding my ex-classmate during primary school Noor Fairoza Razali kt Pulau Indah, Klang. Her father happens to be my mom's ex-boss kat Sekolah Latihan Kem PGA Ulu Kinta. X sangka mak & ayah Fairoza still ingat aku & my mom coz mmg da lamer glerr x jumpa. Gambar will hv to update later or esok coz camera Mr. Fiance da bwk blk kg. And mlm smlm sempat catch midnite movie citer Santau..pompuan ittew sgt terer blakon! 5 bintang utk dyer..

Wedding preparation? A loooooooooooong way to go! Byk nye mende x cari + x beli lagi! Hujung bln ni nk blk kg tempah baju. Mak dah remind takot x sempat siap..yes mam! saya balik! Baju akan ditempah di tailor peberet dari zaman mak anak dara lagi which is Lucky Tailor, Tg. Rambutan.

So far yg besar2 dh selamat dibooking - pelamin+baju+andam (2 belah umah), kad jemputan.. Photographer BELOM ! Scary yess!! Brg2 hantaran sedang dlm proses membeli..ada yg dh dibeli pon..

Okeh dh ngantok..nk gi wat kopi jap..bye!

Sesi test baju KEDUA

Bridal : Butik Pengantin & Salon Nasha

Alamat : No 7, Jalan SCI 1/7,
Dataran Sunway, Sunway City Ipoh
31150 Ulu Kinta, Perak.
(berhadapan The Lost World of Tambun)

Majlis : Nikah & Sanding di Perak

PAKEJ SEROJA : RM 1,950
1 PELAMIN
2 PASANG SONGKET/LACE
(DUA YER TUAN2 & PUAN2 !! UTK UMAH LELAKI & PEREMPUAN)
2 X MEKAP
4 PASANG BAJU PERSALINAN
PINTU GERBANG
HIASAN BILIK TIDUR
GAUN & KOT (PERCUMA)
PAYUNG (PERCUMA)
SET AKSESORI
BUNGA TANGAN

Okeh sesi kedua nihs takde gamba..sbb baik wan or aku dua-dua lupa langsong nak amik gamba..boley? hahahahhaha..plus tak banyak choice utk kaler yg aku nak..sbb aku nak PUTIH+PINK but Kak Nana takde. Yang ada is KRIM+PINK. So aku ade test satu dress putih yg sgt cantik & abg det kata leh digabungkn dgn korset & riben pink utk dptkn effect PUTIH+PINK yg aku nak..

OR

Disbbkn dgn pakej nie aku dpt dua (2) pasang baju, which aku x perlukan..so aku leh dapat satu (1) baju BARU dgn hanya tmbah RM 200 shj! Waaaah sgt excited!! Incik tunang macam approve jek baju BARU! hak hak hak! So skang ni aku ngh pk kan design baju yg malatops utk bagi pada kak nana..and the nominees are :-

sangat2 heart yg ini!! sgt cute+sweet+malatops+vogue de vass!

fesyen ni sgt selamat utk org yg berpinggul j-lo (or je-bor) cam aku!

CREDIT
Gamba2 telah discan dari Majalah Pesona Pengantin keluaran Ogos 2009.
Busana : Butik Pengantin D'Pesona
No. 4-01, Jalan Padi Emas 4/1, Pusat Bandar Tampoi
81200, Johor Bahru.
Tel : 07-2375366 / 012-7965366